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Friday, February 15, 2008

I felt sad for my grandpa....he is old, abit senile and require supervision by somebody....he was staying at my uncle's house...this has been the way until recently....i heard from my mum that my uncle's wife is sort of ill-treating him...he then requested to stay with my grandma...

As the chinese saying goes, 一日夫妻百日恩 (to be husband and wife for 1 day, is 100 days of bliss..) however, that is not the case with my grandparents....since small...i have seen them battle verbally and physically...there was 1 time when they nearly throw chairs at each other....but then those days were when my grandpa wasn't senile...now, he can barely walk properly let alone fight back....

I assume my grandpa want to moved back is because he cant stand my uncle's wife...but slowly another reason come up...maybe my grandpa is try to save what's left of his marriage with my grandma...but that's only my thinking...

I just visited them today...it's been really long since i have visited them...when i saw my grandpa...he looked so thin....so fragile....yet i heard from my mum that my grandma too ill-treat my grandpa...though there is a maid there....i hear from my mum that my grandma will beat my grandpa sometime...my grandma will even scold me for just greeting my grandpa...at that moment...i really felt sad for him....he hasnt done anything and this is the way that he is going to be treated until the day he pass away?....i do not know what happened in the past...but i certainly know that my grandma shouldnt treat my grandpa like that...even if there is a huge grudge...moreover...they have been married for decades and have bear 3 childrens which those 3 children have bear theirs...why do my grandma be so heartless?...can't she let bygones be bygones?...what is the point of beating him?...so that he will die sooner then u?...are you really happy when he dies?

I don't really like my grandma at all...how can she so cold-blooded...her husband is like a nemesis that she cant wait to get rid of...she even propose to send my grandpa to a nursing home...she don't even care if he lives or dies...i don't even think that she will shed 1 single tears when he dies....likewise...from what i have seen from her...i doubt i will shed a tear for her too....

{10:52 PM}